Skip to Main Content
2013-03-29 09:32 pm (UTC)
This doesn't sound priggish at all. You never agreed to be connected with this person's relationship or their scene
in any way
. That's not "informed consent". Hell, that's not
kind of consent.
If you respond at all, I'd make it very clear that you have not opened the attachment, you are not looking at her lingerie pics, and while you're at it... yeah, what you said about not including random, non-consenting strangers in
their public humiliation
any kind of play.
Even if it were on FetLife, I'd say the same thing, unless it were in some group devoted to such things (as opposed to just a direct message to your inbox).
Turning people down does not make you "a prig"; it makes you
. Sex-positivity and sexual freedom have always included the freedom to say "no".
Reply to this
Thread from start
Post a comment in response:
This account has disabled anonymous posting.
You can comment on this post while signed in with an account from many other sites, once you have confirmed your email address.
Sign in using OpenID
If you don't have an account you can
create one now
HTML doesn't work in the subject.
Check spelling during preview
This account is set to log the IP addresses of everyone who comments.
Links will be displayed as unclickable URLs to help prevent spam.
Log in with OpenID?
Forget your password?
Site and Journal Search
Buy Dreamwidth Services
Gift a Random User
Site and Account