hot_tramp: ten commandments kink (religion-kink)
she stole it fast & with a multitude of casualties ([personal profile] hot_tramp) wrote2013-03-29 08:02 am
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Kink etiquette

Is it me, or is this just as obnoxious as unsolicited dick pics and copy-pasted porn?

"I have an odd request for you. I'm in a D/s relationship and my Daddy has given me an assignment. I have to get five women to look at a picture of me in the lingerie Daddy bought me. I also have to get punishment suggestions from you. This is a public humiliation assignment, so it's really hard for me to do this. I hope you reply."

This was on OKCupid, mind you, not FetLife. I'm tempted to reply with some helpful hints about, I dunno, not using random strangers in your humiliation play, but I also kind of feel like I'm being a prig. What say you, interweb?

[personal profile] polydee 2013-03-29 11:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup. That's the core issue here. This is non-consensual involvement of you in their kink. Assuming that these people are what they claim, I'd guess that they are mistaking kink and consent to kink for consent to participate in theirs. There might be some hope for them in the long run, but at the moment they look like beginners to me. If you get the urge to reply, tell her she should be punished by having her picture taken wearing nothing but a pair of roller skates with training wheels on them.

[personal profile] yallya 2013-03-30 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
There is no kink.

This is a dude. He believes that most women are not very sexual. He believes that those who are, are indiscriminate. He believes that if he can get you to look at sexy pics and comment on them -- ANY comment -- then you will be irrepressibly compelled to bang him.

It all makes sense in Nice Guy logic.

[personal profile] polydee 2013-03-30 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
While you're probably right about part of it, the Nice Guy in this saga should coming riding in to save her from this awful beast.

[personal profile] cobalt_blue2 2013-03-30 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
It seems to me that it should be the dom who has to reply. As his punishment.
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[personal profile] cheshire 2013-03-31 10:43 am (UTC)(link)
Why oh why is there no *love* button!