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digitalsidhe ([personal profile] digitalsidhe) wrote in [personal profile] hot_tramp 2013-03-29 09:32 pm (UTC)

This doesn't sound priggish at all. You never agreed to be connected with this person's relationship or their scene in any way. That's not "informed consent". Hell, that's not any kind of consent.

If you respond at all, I'd make it very clear that you have not opened the attachment, you are not looking at her lingerie pics, and while you're at it... yeah, what you said about not including random, non-consenting strangers in their public humiliation any kind of play.

Even if it were on FetLife, I'd say the same thing, unless it were in some group devoted to such things (as opposed to just a direct message to your inbox).

Turning people down does not make you "a prig"; it makes you sex-positive. Sex-positivity and sexual freedom have always included the freedom to say "no".

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